Let's face it, most of us don't get excited about going back to school. But ready or not, it's back to school we go. Soften the blow with these back to school tips for the students in your life. Little Ones
Include them in the planning. Make them a part of the process. Let them help you choose supplies and personalize them. Have them participate in getting their school bag ready and setting up the spaces that they will use for school work. Whatever you do, include them.
Establish a routine. Get them used to the routine before hand. Walk or drive the route to school a few times, even if they've been there before to make it more familiar that first day. Start bed times and early wake-ups a few days in advance to break them in. Make getting ready for the next day a part of the nightly routine by laying out clothes together and making lunch.
Meet their teacher. If you can, take your little one to meet their teacher before school starts. Take the time to help your child's teacher understand how he/she learns. Understanding your child's learning style and sharing that with the teacher can keep learning fun.
The way you prepare your little one to school can make all the difference in how they view school.
Middle of the Pack
Prepare for the change. Your middle school aged child will be faced with many changes. From their own bodies to the way they move around school, or new academic challenges, one things for sure, there will be a lot going on. As they navigate change, establish norms and maintaining routines are still important. Revisit or create a new system to manage their schoolwork and keep things organized to avoid the stress of misplaced assignments.
Social Schedules become even more of a priority. Teach them to balance the new demands by teaching them time management, stress relief and organization tips. Set aside weekly time where you can help them corral their things and schoolwork to stay on top of everything....it's also a great time to catch up on what's new in their lives.
High School
Take the high road. They're worried about staying cool, you've already got your eyes on college. Meet in the middle and work together to prepare them for the next step. As they earn privileges, continue to teach them how to manage time, juggle scheduling conflicts and be accountable for their responsibilities.
It's not too early for a resume. One of the most valuable but under utilized tool for high school students is an Academic Resume. An Academic Resume details their accomplishments for each academic year (9-12). It's a catch all document for honor roll listings, team participation, community service, awards, jobs and other highlights. Have your teen update their Academic Resume each year. It'll make filling out applications much easier when it's time for college.
Decisions, decisions. Teaching your high school aged student how to make choices and healthy decisions is time well spent. Once they're of age, they will be better prepared to manage the decision that they'll have to make without you.
College Here They Come
Money matters. One of the most important lessons that you can teach your college bound child. Talk about how to maintain good credit and about the responsibilities of smart money management. Teach them how to save and spend wisely to avoid the post graduation debt.
Goal setting. Having a plan and goals can help maximize the time spent in school. Set priorities based on your goals and work towards them. Having a list of goals doesn't mean there's no fun to be had, but it makes choosing a lot easier when you know what you're willing to sacrifice or not.
Finally, the Continuing Ed Professional
Time, time, so little time. The biggest challenge for the returning student (aside from having to learn to take notes again) is likely time management and productivity. Being ruthless with your schedule and using a calendar or planner is key to maintaining your sanity---and keeping track of your's and your families schedules. Schedule everything and leave nothing to chance to maximize your study, work and play time. (Yes play time is allowed.)
No matter what the grade level, going back to school will be hard work. But it can also be fun!